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Now, getting back to the topic. You would have heard “if you obey all the rules, you miss out on all the fun.” But, I would say, Rules are part of our life and basically, rules make the framework for the children to understand what is expected of them at home, and in school or maybe when they are with their friends.
When we set boundaries for our children, then we are able to make them learn many skills. and it helps them to succeed in all areas of life. In fact, the rule teaches children self-discipline and help them learn how to make healthy choices.
Let’s understand this well Setting rules bring Structure as well as stability. Now we will think that why these rules and limitations that make life disciplined are so important for us… Because, if today you will not teach children to follow the rules, then tomorrow the system will force them to follow the rules We all know that neither children nor elders want to learn anything by force.
Rules are not fixed format, we do not want to tie our children’s lives in any fixed format. Actually, when we follow certain rules and set limits, it leads to a disciplined life. And we understand properly, the discipline means that is, freedom from laziness, freedom from lethargy.
Freedom from expectation, we get rid of people’s expectations. We also get freedom from the demands of others. we do get freedom from weakness, and also we get freedom from fear and doubt. We all know, how it works, when a child wants to convert his dream into a reality.
This, we can properly understand with an example. As of now, due to the pandemic all schools and colleges are closed. In today’s scenario, we will appreciate this more… All of us are eagerly waiting for the reopening of schools and colleges.
As, structured studies, sports, cultural activities of schools teach a lot to the children …… like waking up early in the morning, getting ready and upkeep of hygiene, when a child goes to school or college.
Regular chapter wise classes of all subjects. In time coverage of syllabus.. Revisions, assessments, assignments and so on… Even when a child has to prepare for some competition. He or she has to dedicate, follow rules and put in a fixed number of hours towards preparation, to finally excel in the event.
This means that the rules, setting limits and discipline act as the bridge between goals and accomplishment. So if we follow the rules, then we can easily control any school, society, organization, country, and even the world.
so, now you have understood, how important are rules in our life? Its time to ponder Accept the challenge, to establish and maintain the rules at home. Remember when you set the rules at home rules need to be simple very straight forward Rules should be clear, concise and positive you need to be very very logical.
you need to be very consistent And at last, I would say that, don’t forget to reinforce, reinforce, and reinforce. And now you may take my advice The rule makes way for us and discipline takes us to the destination Hope you love this advice.
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